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Life of the mind: Is it me?

Some you win. Some you lose. You can’t make someone stay in therapy.

By Anna Blundy  
February 19, 2015
March 2015

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I lost a patient the other day. He didn’t die or anything; he just emailed to say he didn’t want to come any more. “No! Wait! Why?” I wanted to shout. “It was going so well! You told me all that horrific stuff you’ve never told anyone before. We haven’t even got going yet!” It was like being dumped by email after a few intense and moving dates. I wrote back saying that of course I understand how hard therapy can be; I know how important it is to feel a sense…

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Anna Blundy is a writer in training to be a psychotherapist. The situation described above is composite and confidentiality has not been breached

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