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If you’re not attracted to your therapist, let’s face it: you will be

It was my own urge to sexualise all my relationships that made me so defensive about my feelings for my analyst

By Anna Blundy   December 2017

Note: not what most therapist's offices actually look like.

“I’m not sure if I want to crawl into her vagina like a baby getting back into the womb, or if I want to put my penis into her vagina in an adult sexual way,” my psychoanalyst friend said, spearing a whitebait.

“Or both?” I suggested. He was talking about his own analyst, or, rather, shouting about her because the restaurant was packed and noisy.

“Do you tell her this?” I asked, thinking it must be uncomfortable for her to hear…

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