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Dear Wilhemina

Prospect’s agony aunt responds to readers’ problems

By Wilhemina   May 2010

I want to slap my would-be in-laws

Dear Wilhemina I’ve been seeing a man for three years, and we recently moved in together. His family have always been nice to me, but this “living in sin” thing obviously bothers them. They’ve taken to introducing me as his wife, and his mother seizes every opportunity to send me things in the post (including flowers) so she can address me as “Mrs Robert Vance.” My partner understands my annoyance, but says it’s harmless. I, on the other hand, want to slap them and yell at the top of my lungs WE ARE…

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